[ix] Omegle: Girl who explained me meaning of Polyamory Marriages. June 9, 2013

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Stranger: i can't stand cheaters

Stranger: even if a guy cheats on a girl with you, he's still a cheater and you can't trust her

Stranger: you have to be able to trust him completely

Stranger: did you ever heard about Polyamory? :)

You: no i don't think so

Stranger: Polyamory, often abbreviated as poly, is often described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy."

You: oh like not being committed to one person?

Stranger: Distinguishing polyamory from traditional forms of non-monogamy (e.g., "cheating") is an ideology that openness, goodwill, truthful communication, and ethical behavior should prevail among all the parties involved.[7][8] As of July 2009, it was estimated that more than 500,000 polyamorous relationships existed in the United States.[9]

You: oh non monogamy

You: i didn't read the non part

You: what you think are downside of such relationship?

Stranger: For many, such relationships are ideally built upon values of trust, loyalty, the negotiation of boundaries, and compersion, as well as overcoming jealousy, possessiveness, and the rejection of restrictive cultural standards

Stranger: well there really aren't any downsides

Stranger: i mean thats what I'd want

Stranger: i don't want some girl cheating

Stranger: can you personally be sure for yourself that during your life you won't need anyone except for the one who you love?

You: oh yeah

You: I've never cheated on a girl now

Stranger: but you know if we would litterally accept the phrase "cheating", then divorsing and getting married again could be considered as cheating too

You: I'm not a big fan of that too

Stranger: i don't plan on getting divorced

You: but people sometimes get divorsed, and there's a pretty big chance actually

You: due to statistics

Stranger: yeah i no

Stranger: sometimes those problems are caused by the problem of cheating

Stranger:  I just mean that socially if trust are achieved between the polyamory community participants, then the problems like cheating could be eliminated, because probably everyone could be happy, right? If all of those families lives together within one neighborhood, then its easier to handle problems like hiring one nanny for all of the children (nannies could be pretty tough for family budget), plus it would be easier to help each other, since everyone will live in one big family

Stranger: its kinda expanding the meaning of the family

You: wow

You: your really smart aren't you

Stranger: haha I thought you'll call me pervert :)

You: haha why?

Stranger: I'm also against cheating, but even though I'm not really need a lots of sex, in current economy I consider polyamory as an interesting idea

Stranger: Sex is not necessarily a primary focus in polyamorous relationships, which commonly consist of people seeking to build long-term relationships with more than one person on mutually agreeable grounds, with sex as only one aspect of their relationships.

Stranger: I've seen many guys who don't like to think about sex as about "not necessarily a primary focus"

Stranger: because that's what evolution pushes them to do, most of them are too sexually active

You: i know exactly what your saying

You: but only if its not harms the core of relationship

Stranger: you know the relationships sooner or later are getting routinized, don't you think?

You: I'm honestly shocked

Stranger: e.g. if I don't want you today, I could tell you to choose other women for an evening inside our family :P

Stranger: haha wow

Stranger: you know another thing about polyamory is that if you lose your ability to have sex, then your wife won't get disappointed in you

Stranger: because she will have an alternative options

Stranger: if she can't have sex

Stranger: then you get the benefits

Stranger: without breaking up with your wife

Stranger: you know sometimes women (e.g. during pregnancy or over special periods) just don't want sex

Stranger: that's time to cheat on her inside your family :)

Stranger: its like a brothers and sisters

Stranger: You could just spend my evening with some neighbor and its all fine

Stranger: only with trusted and certified neighbor :)

Stranger: medical checks are important in such community

Stranger: to prevent diseases

Stranger: like hiv

Stranger: etc

Stranger: I'm thinking about some rules too

You: and my wife would be fine with it?

Stranger: well only the members who's totally supporting the idea will be allowed

Stranger: usually womens aren't go against extra support

Stranger: when there's 5 families a women can be sure that during the most difficult moments she won't be left alone

Stranger: because she relies not only on 1 person

You: ok so then let me ask this
You: how does it even look legally?

Stranger: when one husband doesn't meet goals to perform his family responsibilities the whole community are helping him

Stranger: hypotheticly

Stranger: I told you in a beginning "For many, such relationships are ideally built upon values of trust, loyalty, the negotiation of boundaries, and compersion, as well as overcoming jealousy, possessiveness, and the rejection of restrictive cultural standards."

Stranger: another women outside community?

You: idk i just think some people would get pissed

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